Saturday, March 26, 2011

The Good Touch

     Today we talk a bit about something we all know a little well, at least we should.  An amazing sexual experience doesn't always come about from actual intercourse. Sometimes, a little hand play is all you need.
Think about it. Back in high school, your best friend was you, or your hand, to be specific. It was likely one of your first experiences (yes i understand that differs for some in good and bad ways). You spent effort to use those hands on your boyfriend or girlfriend, trying to get them excited. At some point, usually when we are actually having regular sex, we tend to forget about what we can do with our hands, after a few minutes.  
     This should not be the case.  But at the same time i will note, not everyone has taken the time to learn how to get their partner off with just their hands. Others work jobs where their hands are like splintered wood, and your partner may be taken aback by this. So how do we get around this? Guys and gals, LETS NOT FORGET OUR FRIEND THE LOTION BOTTLE!!!!!!! 
      All joking aside, take care of your hands, because their is so so so much you can do for each other with them. If you find how your partner touches you to be frustrating, guide them with your own hands, talk to them telling them how you like to be touched, caressed rubbed or flat out pulled while talking to them to let them know why it feels good to you. But don't worry if you feel silly doing it, laugh some, its about having fun together! Also don't be afraid to let your significant other watch you, you might find they enjoy watching, and may have trouble keeping their hands of themselves and you.
      Take the time to explore each other and yourself,and if it tickles, then you are doing it right.


25 comments:

  1. ...sigh. I have no experience in this.

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  2. LOL @ every day that comment made my morning.

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  3. LOL..I'll definitely keep this mind..keep these posts coming!! ^followed..check my blog out!

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  4. Good tips, me and my girlfriend gonna try it out ^_^

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  5. Very good tips in this blog! Keep them coming (in more ways than one!!!) :D

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  6. I like your background, what it is?

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  7. Amazing blog. Thanks for sharing!

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  8. Looks like you know what your talking about.

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  9. I need to get into this stuff more. Hope for more awesome posts

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  10. "Think about it. Back in high school, your best friend was you, or your hand, to be specific."

    I finished High School long, long time ago and my girlfriend is still my right hand.

    I'm ok with this.

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  11. @green bus- you are my hero for that comment.

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  12. Heh, I'm very fond of my hands too. Great advice.

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  13. Next time I won't forget my friend the lotion bottle.

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  14. this blog suits my tastes if ya know what i mean heh ;D keep it up!

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  15. Hell yeah, me and my gal bought a lotion and it lasts for a few months or a whole year depends on how active or if one is in the mode for that kind of stuff.

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  16. I'm in college and my hand is still my best friend.
    T_T

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  17. I'm single but I'll keep this in mind.

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  18. I know one thing that does it for my girlfriend? Elbows. My hands tend to be soft due to my easy-going profession and the moisturizing soap at my office, but my elbows tend to suffer. Nothing kills the mood more than a crusty dry elbow running across exposed skin in the heat of the moment!

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  19. These all seem like some great tips!

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