That is one reason why, it can be fun to switch roles in this type of play. If you are the mostly dominate one, try taking the role where your love has total control of you, it can lead to some insight as to how they want you to handle them. They may caress you in a way that you had not thought of, that at a later point you can try with them.
A little pinch here a little tickle there, and you can drive each other CRAZY, in a completely wonderful way.Now as far as getting started with this in your relationship, it can be as simple as tying your lovers hands up with a t-shirt, and seeing how well that is liked. The next day, reverse the role. After you find out how much fun you can have together, start to think about what else you can incorporate into your game. Let your imagination run wild, I'm sure you will find yourself closer to each other than the day before.