The topic today is a subject that some don,t like for one reason or another, as a matter of fact, in my younger days, one while i was happy to watch in film, was I actually afraid to bring into my personal life. Get your cheap laughs at me out now, I will wait...............Of course as the title not so subtly suggests, is about vibrators..
Call them what you want, my personal favorite names being "marital aids", can be very intimidating to some. I really believe there is some small part of the male psyche (is I misspelled it for the context oh well) that can cause a small amount of angst at the thought of bringing something like this into your lovemaking experience. There may also be many women out there who think ill of bedroom toys, because they can be viewed as something dirty.
Many enjoy them, many enjoy them as a couple. Some don't want their partner to know they use one, and some want nothing more than to use them on their partner.
This is one unique opportunity, to experience something unique with your love. Now the same as everything you need to share with your partner, and not fear using toys in the bedroom, together this can be exhilarating. Though a few tips for first timers, don't try going for the diesel powered thunder rods. and something as simple as a hand held shower head, can provide you and your lover with your first opportunity to play together. Explore sites that cater to couples of all types (I suggest sites like Slumber parties by Jenni because of the nice selection for beginners and advanced play)
Look at this as chance to enhance some of the pleasure you feel together.
Now as far as the funny idea, by no means am I claiming to be the creator of this idea, but for some of the kinkier folks out there, if you don't already have a set of remote control vibrating panties, get a pair (or two depending ton the type of couple you are *wink) give the remote to your lover and go out on a date. set them off at the most, interesting times. But remember safety first, no orgasms behind the wheel, that could make for a very bad evening.