Sunday, April 10, 2011

All Tied Up Pt. 2

   As I said before this is not a post dedicated to everyone. This is for the more advanced in the bondage foray, and those willing to suffer a bit for their art, for lack of better words. Today we talk a little bit more about rope bondage. Previously, I gave a small tutorial about the Kikkou-Shibari style of rope tying. While simple and seductive in looks, it is more of an aesthetic tie than a real bondage tie. Today, the ties i will talk about, are dedicated to keeping your lover, shall we say, a little ocupied.
   Rope bondage is one of the simplest and cheapest manners of exploring the BDSM world. Requiring not much more than $20.00 of investment, it allows for some of the lightest and if you want some of the roughest bondage play you can imagine. but as such it can be dangerous you need to take precaution for advanced play, safety is and will always be the key. Now if you have never tried any type of bondage play out, I suggest you do a little research before doing so. And although you will get some interesting results looking for bondage on Google, taking the time to sift through can yield a plethora of information.
     Now for the fun stuff.
      We will begin with the Ushiro Takate Kote. This tie is meant to hold the arms behind the back, immobile. As I said in my last update, I am the one doing this tie, hate to say this though, no nudity, one google wont allow it, and two, my love is my love, though she was kind enough to share this moment with all of you. Sending her a thanks in the comments, I'm sure would make her day.
I used a 50 foot rope for this. first thing you will want to make a loop at the middle like so, this is often called the "larks head" in traditional Japanese texts.

Neat you will want to place your partners hands behind them, having you rope, with loop up, behind the arms, you will want to have plenty of slack .

You will want to wrap the wrists 3-4 times, being careful not to cut off circulation. I added a little more slack to the loop after I took this picture, because you are going to wrap the loop around your other wrapping.

 Like so.
Next you will warp the rope around  your partner, over the breast (on women, upper chest on males)

Then loop it under the other rope, and wrap in reverse.

You are going to wrap underneath the center rope and reverse again. afterwards, you will pass the rope through the original loop

Now for a little flair, i took the rope from the loop, over the shoulder, and under the opposing arm to make a cross between the breasts. pass rope through the loop, and reverse to make a rather nice looking X.

At this point you can have some fun......

If you want to keep your partner standing while you tease them, a ceiling hook can provide just what you need.

Thank you for coming by. I hope you enjoyed the information, until next time.........

Saturday, April 9, 2011


The next article is still in the works, bonus the tie I am going to show I am actually doing, and taking the pictures myself, hope you enjoy the completed article when  get it finished. Thank you again and happy experimenting.

Friday, April 8, 2011

To Let You Know

     The next story on rope ties is in the works. It will feature more advanced work, not for the faint. It will be more BDSM styled work, so it wont be for all. This will take me about one more day to put together the best information that I can , but I think it will be worth it. Until then love your  partner like no other before them.  

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Rub You The Right Way

     Hello sorry for the absence, but I am going to tell you a little bit about myself today.  You will notice periodically that I have gaps of time between when I write, this is due to the fact that I was injured some time ago fairly bad. Though I am moderately young, I spend a lot of time in absolute agony. There are points when even typing is a difficulty. So I am sorry for the break, but lets get back to fun, shall we?
     Today I want to talk to you about massage. Why not exactly the most perverse thing ever, the intimacy  factor is through the roof.  Sensual massage is a simple way to ignite a spark for a night of great passion, whether you have been together for decades, or if you are trying to take the time to impress a new lover. While many are aware of this, fear of rejection, or not knowing how to initiate, can lead to a little hesitation. Also your lovers mood and receptiveness need to be taken into consideration.
     Now, lets get started. There are a few things you will need, besides your hands, to make this a night to remember. First you will need a good massage oil or lotion, that is also safe for internal use, you need a couple of towels, a blindfold (if you enjoy that kind of thing), and some baby wipes (post experience cleanup trust me here).
       Your hands need to be clean, nails trimmed, and your hands should be warm. I find it best also, to have your lotion / oil sitting in a bowl of warm / hot water, to warm them up also. Do Not have them hot enough to burn yourself or your partner.  You should apply a generous amount of your oil / lotion to your hands, rub them together, and start to get to work. Remember to use a somewhat light touch, you are working on relaxing and arousing your partner, not beating them up.
        You will want to give your lover a full body massage. I don't mean using the entire day to rub every square inch of them, but incorporate everything you can into it, use your torso on their back. Rub your cheeks against theirs, kiss their body, licking, warm breath against their skin, are often welcomed with an
intimate response.
         A little side note, we as men tend to focus a lot of attention to the obvious areas of a womans body, but take note, a woman can be aroused areas like the wrists, fingers, ears, the back of her neck, and the insides of her elbows and knees. Feel free to rub, kiss, lick, and even nibble on these areas, you may find your session  that much more interesting for trying it.

     Start out by lightly stroking your partner's body with the tips of your fingers, starting on your partner's back. Move from one area of the body to another covering shoulders, arms, thighs, calves and buttocks.
     After your partner is completely relaxed, begin the sensual massage by making long, gliding strokes over their body. When you've completely covered them, switch from long gliding strokes to short deep strokes (for the deep strokes you need to lightly use your body weight rather than your arm strength, but be gentle). As you work your way around, also massage their feet and hands, brush over their buttocks and if you’re massaging a female partner, make sure you gently stroke her breasts.
     When you think the time is right, begin working your way very slowly down your partner's legs gliding your hands as you go. Tease your partner by stroking their inner thigh.
When the sensual energy has had time to build, continue the massage with more strokes to the front of the body. Then, lets just say use your imagination.

As I always say, talk to your partner about what they are enjoying, the more you learn about each other, the closer you can become.