The Pain Game

     This one is not for everyone.  But to day we talk about pain & pleasure combined.  DISCLAIMER: It is not ok to beat your partner, or to cause unwanted pain, what I am talking about is consensual between partners, and SAFETY is key. Take the time to research and talk things out before beginning anything listed here.
     There is a segment of us, and I use us in the global sense, that like to push the envelope on what brings pleasure. For some, a little bit of hurt, can bring about the ultimate in pleasure. While baffling to some, there is are amazing sensations to be felt when pleasure and pain are combined.  From a small bite in the middle of sex, to a pinch on certain sensitive areas on the body during foreplay, spankings for some, to whips and leather for others,  there are more options than one can humanly list in a reasonable amount of time.
     The reason behind this is simple, pain can bring about a huge endorphin rush, this combined with sexual stimulation, can cause a rush almost as intoxicating as using drugs.
     There are things you learn about yourself. You learn what you can withstand. You learn how to handle both the pleasure and pain at the same time. One of my favorites, you learn how to withstand more, and this can actually make you a stronger person.
     A few things to consider, before you start any kind of play like this you need a safety word. What this is is the thing you say when you want your partner to stop.  "More" and "Harder" are not good words to use . (ha ha). Secondly once you decide that you want to try things like these out, start small. a harder than usual pinch or bite of a nipple during foreplay, a little bit of a smack on the rear while stimulating your partner, and progressing as you decide if you and your partner like the feelings and want more.
     Explore what you can find to incorporate, a little candle wax slowly dripped on to each other (this can be dangerous you have to be careful remember trying not to severely burn your partner) can be exciting.

. Research, talk with your partner, experiment together. You will become closer.

next we explore rope bondage with some how to info.